Jennifer Lopez and Casper Smart say their relationsip started off 'natural,' there was no love at first sight

Jennifer Lopez announced that she and husband Marc Anthony were to get a divorce last year at this time, and she has since moved on with her back-up dancer Casper Smart.

Lopez, who just announced she was leaving American Idol, is now happy, but her boyfriend is admitting that it wasn’t love at first sight.

''I don't think it was, for either of us. It was just very natural, you know, natural how it happened,” he told ABC News, Contact Music reports.

''There was nothing before, no flirting, no nothing,” he added.

Lopez, 42, who has a multi-faceted career and 4-year-old twins, recognizes 'It can be difficult for anybody who has to stand by my side ... But at the end of the day, I know that I deserve that (to have love).''

CNN reports that Lopez said on Good Morning America that despite three failed marriages, she’s open to getting married again.

“For me, the biggest dream is the fairy tale,” she said. "I will never give up on that dream.”