On last night’s episode of The Bachelorette, Desiree Hartstock eliminated one of the contestants after she found out he actually had a girlfriend back home.

Harstock found out about Brian Jarosinki’s girlfriend, Stephanie, when host Chris Harrison called her to the mansion where the guys live to tell her a secret about one of the contestants.

Stephanie was there, at the mansion, and when Hartstock confronted Jarosinki about her, he denied it.

“Really? Because she’s here,” said Harstock, Fox News reports.

“It takes someone with no character to come onto a show looking for love knowing he has a relationship back home,” Hartstock told the cameras as she sent Jarosinski home.

On her People blog, Hartstock wrote, “I was disgusted when I heard the news, and even more outraged when I learned that Stephanie is a single mother. It made me mad that someone could be so deceitful and disrespect women in that way.”

She added, “He also wasted my time and took the spot of another guy that did have the right intentions.”