Vanessa Lachey is currently expecting her second child with husband, Nick Lachey, giving their 2-year-old son Camden a baby sister.

In a new interview with American Baby, Lachey opened up about it taking her more time to connect with her pregnancy when she was pregnant with Camden.

“I felt guilty because everyone told me about this love I’d feel, and I wasn’t there yet,” she explained. “I remember asking Nick, ‘Is something wrong with me? I’ve wanted this my whole life and I’m forcing myself to have those feelings.’”

However, the moment she did connect to being pregnant was when she found out the sex of the baby. “That’s when I could finally bond, once I knew ‘it’ was a him,” she said.

Lachey also gave her best parenting advice, telling new moms not to worry so much and that your instincts “kick in” once you give birth.

Last year Lachey was open about her struggle with post-partum depression. “I didn't feel like myself. Where was the super woman who always thought and knew she could do it all?” she said at the time.

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